“Prior to this work, I was lost, trying to find myself in a sea of “shoulds” that I carried from my old career, from the media telling me how my erotic body should behave, and from my culture. I could see glimmers of something essential in me, capable of extraordinary things as a leader, an intuitive facilitator, a sexy woman, a [partner] to my husband in a hot marriage of 37 years…a life that I had only dreamt of, but was always just out of reach.
This program woke that up in me, called it out of me, was not willing to settle for anything less than ALL of me. Whether it is through the gift of being in Regena's small group containers, OR through the way she teaches us to sister each other, OR the way I have repeatedly seen women rise in the sisterhood, I was able to peel the layers away, and emerge fully from the chrysalis with vibrancy, turn-on, and embodied confidence in who I am and what I bring to the table.
Last week, I had 50+ women opt in for a program based on two videos I sent in 4 days. I drew in co-leaders for the same program just the week before, who are rising in their confidence and are willing to offer their talents because I now know how to welcome this, rather than resist or try to control it. I can now lead from my strengths and gifts because I unerringly know what is MINE, and thus, can ask and receive support on what isn’t mine to tackle. I did all of this while on a couples’ retreat with my husband, because I listened to the whispered voice that said, 'NOW is the time.'
Those places where I would have said 'No, I can’t' in the past, have become opportunities to be creative in discerning the conditions in which I can say 'YES, I CAN'.”